Topic: public and private
Hi Iolanda
We are currently lucky enough to be having fertility treatments with the KEMH public fertility service, after TTC our first baby for over 3 years.
I must say It has been a very long and slow process, but I have kept with it because I was told that I would be moved onto IVF which was publicly funded if the iui's didnt work. I have done everything I am supposed to and had lap and also a polypectomy and currently undergoing iui with injectable's and nothing seems to work for us.
After being told by one of the attending consultants there we could put in our application for IVF (which would take 2-3 months for me to be assigned to a Dr) we submitted the paperwork at our last appointment - when I saw a different consultant, who told me it would be put in now and we could so 2 more iui while we waited for our ivf appointment. This was my choice as I am currently doing one now and was given the option of doing another one, which I said I may aswell do while waiting for the paper work to be processed - so its 2 including this one.
I am in tears as I am now being told that the form will not be posted until I have done 2 unsuccessful iui's - so then If I am unsuccessful with these IUI's then I will have a 3 month wait for IVF. I am so upset and feel like there is no one for me to go and ask whats going on - but that is what the Dr said, I wish I had of said no to the iui's when he gave me the option.
I am too scared to complain as I know I should be grateful for the public service, but I feel so torn and stressed out. We have no private health cover and I just don't know if I am best to just get into debt and go private now or stick with it, I am getting older and its getting more and more depressing watching those around me having their 2nd babies now when I haven't even had my first. This is so difficult.
Can you offer me any advice as to where I stand with this? Can I take copies of my file and see a private Dr for a consult without losing my place on the public system? How long does it actually take for my public paperwork to assign me to a public IVF Dr?
I am so upset and its not doing my iui cycle any good as I want to remain as relaxed as possible (which is kinda easier if you know you have IVF to fall back on).
many thanks